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A Webinar for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents
Understanding Scapegoating -
The Survivor's First Step to Recovery
This webinar explains the basic psychology of narcissistic abuse in families. Learn how a narcissistic parent’s need to be superior shapes their behavior and forces a child into the role of scapegoat.
Make Sense of What Happened
(to see it wasn't your fault)
The Main Benefits You'll Experience
Understand how narcissistic abuse works in families
Learn how and why a narcissistic parent's psychology causes the people closest to them to suffer.
Learn why you were the scapegoat
See why a narcissistic parent has to offload their own painful feelings of worthlessness onto the child who is - in fact - strong enough to handle it.
Recognize how you survived
Identify the survival strategies that helped you stay connected as a child but now make it hard to trust, rest, or feel safe.
Connect the past to your present
Understand how old beliefs like “I’m defective” or “My needs are less important than others” still shape your adult life — and how to start seeing through them.
Get a clear starting point for recovery
Once you understand how scapegoating shaped you, you can stop repeating old patterns and begin building a different life.
Not knowing the truth about your past keeps you stuck in it.
Growing up in a narcissistic family leaves you with the wrong story about who you are.
You were blamed, ignored, and made to feel like you were the problem.
Without clear answers, it’s easy to keep living by the same old rules. Rules like:
1) Don't put yourself first
2) Never get angry
3) Expect nothing from others
This course helps you see how those rules got written, why they were necessary to follow and what's needed today to stop following them.
You’ll learn how the narcissistic parent works, why they target one child, and how the scapegoat survives by taking on too much.
You’ll begin to see the real story — and where you can go from here.
Don’t stay in the dark. Start living your life with clarity and truth.
Why Scapegoat Survivors Stay Stuck
Lack of Clarity
If you were devalued, deprived and domineered as a child, you may not realize this was part of a larger system — not just “bad parenting.”
Still Thinking It Was Your Fault
Scapegoat children had to conclude that they were getting mistreated because were too sensitive, too needy, or just too much. That belief doesn’t go away on its own.
Seeing the Present Like It's the Past
Trauma makes it hard to know that today is different and safer than before. Understanding what you went through helps you see this difference better.
No Words for What You Went Through
The rules of narcissistic abuse in the family are never spoken but they are followed. This makes it hard to know when you're still following them today.
Here's how scapegoat survivors get unstuck:
They learn how scapegoating works, step by step.
When you see the full picture — what narcissistic parents are really doing and why — you get to stop blaming yourself.
They see what they had to do to survive.
Seeing the ways you were shaped by the scapegoat role helps you learn you're now safe to live otherwise.
They apply what they learn to their own story.
See what you endured through a lens that restores your dignity.
The Complete Crash Course for Scapegoat Survivors
Everything You Need to Understand Narcissistic Abuse—In One Place
If you’ve been trying to piece together what happened to you—reading articles, watching videos, collecting fragments of insight—this course is your turning point.
It’s a focused, no-fluff crash course that gives scapegoat survivors everything they need to know about how narcissistic abuse works and how it may have affected them.
What’s Inside:
Over 2.5 hours of focused video lessons
Clearly structured modules that explain the mechanics of scapegoating, how it impacts your identity, and what makes it so hard to move on—even years later.
Targeted worksheets and reflection assignments
Each section comes with practical tools to help you apply what you’ve learned to your own story and experience.
One-stop clarity on topics like:
The narcissistic family system and why scapegoats are created
How survivors are trained to doubt themselves and normalize mistreatment
Why you may still feel shame, guilt, or confusion—long after childhood
The unconscious roles and beliefs you had to adopt just to survive
Instead of endlessly searching for more insight, this course gives you a solid, integrated understanding of what happened—so you can begin to leave it behind.
Stop circling the story. Start making sense of it.
Here is a sneak peak of the webinar...
What People are Saying
Validating and healing
This webinar was incredibly validating. Jay Reid speaks with such a gentle and compassionate voice that made me feel truly seen. The case studies reminded me so much of my own upbringing, and for the first time, I realized that the things I blamed myself for were really just coping mechanisms I developed to survive. It helped me make sense of so much. Highly recommended for anyone who grew up feeling like the family scapegoat.
Untangling the emotional aftermath...
This webinar is a powerful, compassionate guide for anyone who has been in a family with a narcissistic parent. As someone who has spent years trying to untangle the emotional aftermath of this family dynamic, watching this webinar felt like someone finally turning on the lights in a very dark room. Jay breaks down the family roles, the psychological impact, and the path towards healing. The concept of "breaking the spell" of the narcissistic parent was especially impactful and helped me see over the theoretical wall I've built. I'm starting to reevaluate longe held beliefs about myself and members of my family. Truly can't recommend this webinar enough.
Pricing
Understanding Scapegoating-
The Survivor's Starting Point for Recovery
$69.99
$169.99
This crash course gives you the full picture — what scapegoating is, why it happened to you, and how it’s still shaping your life.
No more piecing things together.
No more guessing what’s “wrong” with you.
You’ll learn:
How narcissistic abuse actually works
The hidden beliefs it planted in you
Why it’s been so hard to move on — and what to do next
With over 2.5 hours of video and guided worksheets, you will understand how and why none of this was your fault
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FAQs
Will this webinar really make a difference in my life?
Yes.
This webinar brings together everything a scapegoat survivor needs to understand what really happened in their family.
You’ll see examples of how narcissistic parents operate, why one child is singled out, and how that child adapts just to stay attached.
Many survivors say this webinar was the first time they finally understood their own story.
The clarity it offers helps break the confusion and self-blame that keep survivors stuck in isolation.
How is this different from watching YouTube videos?
Most YouTube videos - including mine - can only give pieces of the picture — this webinar gives you the whole map.
You’ll learn exactly how narcissistic family systems work, why the scapegoat role exists, and how those early rules still affect you today.
It’s a complete, structured understanding that connects the dots instead of leaving you guessing.
How long will I have access to the webinar?
You’ll have lifetime access.
That means you can go through the material at your own pace, revisit sections that hit home, and return to it whenever you need clarity again.
Many survivors say they found new insights each time they rewatched it.
Meet the Presenter
Jay Reid, M.S., LPCC
M.S. Clinical Psychology
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC)
I am a licensed practicing psychotherapist in San Francisco, CA. I've been working with survivors of narcissistic abuse since 2014.
I focus on this area for a couple reasons:
Survivors have had to falsely believe they are much worse than they are - that's not fair! Therapy involves working towards knowing the 'good news' that they are much better than they've been made to believe.
I know what it's like to be the scapegoat in my own family of origin. I find purpose and meaning in working with other survivors as they reclaim the quality of life they deserve.
In addition to doing therapy, I work to promote recovery from narcissistic abuse more broadly. I post weekly videos on this topic on a Youtube Channel with over 55,000 subscribers.
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